What is the one thing you should always discuss with your photographer, before planning?
Your wedding day timeline!
A well-planned timeline will help your day flow smoothly for when things run behind (as they inevitably do!) so you wont be rushed. It also helps you plan your day around photography, rather than photography around your day.
I started out as a destination wedding photographer before opening up my new studio as an Asheville wedding photographer. That gives me a very large idea of how light works, and when are the best times for photos. I have helped every couple I work with on their wedding day timeline, so that they can speak with their planners about their day. There is a huge difference in timelines depending on your wedding season, so lets talk about all the seasons, since I work pretty much year round in multiple markets like Asheville, Key West, Miami, New York and Washington DC.
The last question is if you’re getting married and having the reception at the same venue – in fact, the timelines below are specifically for that type of venue, as most of my couples weddings that I photograph take place at the same venue as their reception.
Before going over each season, I like to establish general guidelines for how long things take on the wedding day. Depending on if you’re having a first look and if there’s travel involved, I sometimes start up to 5 hours before the ceremony. Every wedding is different, so thats why we spend the time discussing you as a couple first, so that I know what we need for wedding day!
Many times when things run behind on a wedding day, it’s because people weren’t sure where they needed to be or how they were supposed to get to their destination. Its also because they never discussed this with their photographer and planner. If every moment is important, then make sure to discuss this in our meetings.
Ah, the first look! You’ve likely heard of the first look by now, where the couple see each other before the ceremony. This is a highly personal decision, and I will say that I am not a fan of them. Regardless there are a few situations where they help with the timeline.
You want a lot of couples photos,and a variety of locations on your wedding day.
If you look at my guidelines for portraits, you will see many times that seem like a lot of time. Without a first look, all those portraits need to be squeezed into cocktail hour and after the ceremony. If you want multiple locations that are off-site for your portraits then a first look is a must.
The Sun Sets at Different Times of the Year.
When a couple gets married in the summer, the sun can set at 8:00 PM or later. This means you get “bonus” extra time where I can take them you out during dinner for another 20 minutes and get some gorgeous sunset portraits. Having extra time in the evening helps to not only get beautiful sunset images, but it’s there in case portraits during cocktail hour took longer than anticipated. This off course depends on your group. Attentive groups take no time, but when we start looking for people who wandered off things get short, QUICK!
Consider a summer wedding date! In the spring and summer, most ceremony times are set between 5-6pm. This means you’ll have 2-3 hours of post-ceremony sunlight, which translates to more time for gorgeous images at your wedding venue. Its also when the light is at its BEST!!!! 99% of the time first looks are when the light is the harshest, so you dont have the opportunity to get those intimate portraits. Instead you sweat your ass off!
Ceremony sunsets are absolutely gorgeous! The light is soft and typically “wraps” around the couple in an extremely flattering and romantic way! I have photographed many at sunset, and although tough timeline wise, they are magical!
If you want sunset ceremony images, then I definitely recommend a first look so you can get important portraits completed prior to the ceremony. Otherwise every image after the ceremony is going to involve flash, and no sunlight. There’s always residual light after the sun goes past the horizon, but it doesn’t last long! Its also not ideal for photos.
Feel free to take a look at the timelines below! However, I do have a few quick shortcuts to creating your own timeline. The estimates below are based on weddings where everything is taking place at one location.
For me, the ideal ceremony time is an hour and a half to two hours before sunset. As I mentioned previously, a lot of spring and summer weddings have a ceremony time of 5:00, regardless of sunset time. Sometimes its dependant on the venues guidelines, so this tip may be more applicable to fall and winter weddings. This is why its important to include your photographer in all of these discussions
If you’re having a first look, your pre-ceremony photography coverage should start 4 hours before your ceremony.
Without a first look, your pre-ceremony photography coverage should start 3 hours before your ceremony.
For a fall wedding, we’ll be using a date of October 18th and the time the sun sets in Asheville where I am currently working, on this day, at 6:51 PM.
Positives for a Fall Wedding
Negatives for a Fall Wedding
6:51 PM sunset
Ideal ceremony time – 5:00 PM
2:00: Details and getting ready
3:00: Get dressed
3:30: Individual family photos
4:00: Bridal party photos
4:30: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
5:00: Ceremony (30 minutes)
5:30 – 5:50: Family portraits
5:50 – 6:10: Bridal party portraits
6:10 – 6:30: Married couple portraits
6:35: Grand entrance into reception
6:45-7:10: Sunset Portraits
6:51 PM sunset
Ideal ceremony time – 5:00 PM
1:00: Details and getting ready
2:00: Get dressed
2:30: First look
3:15: Individual family photos, followed by combined family photos
3:45: Bridal party photos
4:15: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
5:00: Ceremony (30 minutes)
5:30 – 6:00: Any additional family portraits / bridal party portraits the couple wants
6:00 – 6:20: Married couple portraits
6:25: Grand entrance into reception
6:45-7:10: Sunset Portraits
For a winter wedding, we’ll be using a date of January 15th and the time the sun sets in Asheville on this day, 5:41 PM.
Positives for a Winter Wedding
Negatives for a Winter Wedding
5:41 PM sunset
Ideal ceremony time – 3:30 PM
12:30: Details and getting ready
1:30: Get dressed
2:00: Individual family photos
2:30: Bridal party photos
3:00: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
3:30: Ceremony (30 minutes)
4:00 – 4:20: Family portraits
4:20 – 4:40: Bridal party portraits
4:40 – 5:00: Married couple portraits
5:15: Grand entrance into reception
5:41 PM sunset
Ideal ceremony time – 3:30 PM
11:30: Details and getting ready
12:30: Get dressed
1:00: First look
1:45: Individual family photos, followed by combined family photos
2:30: Bridal party photos
3:00: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
3:30: Ceremony (30 minutes)
4:00 – 4:30: Any additional family portraits / bridal party portraits the couple wants
4:30 – 5:00: Married couple portraits
5:15: Grand entrance into reception
For a spring wedding, we’ll be using a date of April 10th (my birthday) and the time the sun sets in Asheville on this day, 7:59 PM.
Positives for a Spring Wedding
Negatives for a Spring Wedding
7:59 PM sunset
Ideal ceremony time – 5:30 PM
2:00: Details and getting ready
3:00: Get dressed
3:30: Individual family photos
4:00: Bridal party photos
4:30: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
5:30: Ceremony (30 minutes)
6:00 – 6:45: Family portraits, Bridal party portraits
7:05: Grand entrance into reception
7:45 – 8:15: Married couple portraits
7:59 PM sunset
Ideal ceremony time – 5:00 PM
1:00: Details and getting ready
2:00: Get dressed
3:15: First look
3:45: Individual family photos, followed by combined family photos
4:00: Bridal party photos
4:15: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
5:00: Ceremony (30 minutes)
5:30 – 6:00: Any additional family portraits / bridal party portraits the couple wants
6:00 – 6:45: Married couple portraits
7:00: Grand entrance into reception
For a summer wedding, we’ll be using a date of July 4th (Merica!) and the time the sun sets in Asheville on this day, 8:49 PM.
Positives for a Summer Wedding
Negatives for a Summer Wedding
8:49 PM sunset
Likely ceremony time – 5:00 PM
2:00: Details and getting ready
3:00: Get dressed
3:30: Individual family photos
4:00: Bridal party photos
4:30: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
5:00: Ceremony (30 minutes)
5:30 – 5:50: Family portraits
5:50 – 6:10: Bridal party portraits
6:10 – 6:45: Married couple portraits
7:00: Grand entrance into reception
8:30-9:05: Sunset portraits with married couple
8:49 PM sunset
Likely ceremony time – 5:00 PM
1:00: Details and getting ready
2:00: Get dressed
2:30: First look
3:15: Individual family photos, followed by combined family photos
4:00: Bridal party photos
4:30: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
5:00: Ceremony (30 minutes)
5:30 – 6:00: Any additional family portraits / bridal party portraits the couple wants
6:00 – 6:45: Married couple portraits
7:00: Grand entrance into reception
8:30-9:05: Sunset portraits with married couple
Each couple has a different approach to their celebration of events! One important note when planning reception events is what time your photography coverage concludes, especially if you have hired me for hourly only. I offer hourly, 8 hours, and full day. If you have me for the full day, you can skip this section, because I stay through the very end of the reception.
If you have a scheduled photography end time due to your collection, you should plan to have your last major reception event 30 minutes before your photographer leaves. This leaves a bit of a buffer just in case things run a bit behind. This is very important for sparkler exits, fireworks, classic car exits, etc.
8 hours is a typical wedding photography collection for the couples I work with. Destination couples generally are the full day, and smaller weddings under 50 guests are about 6 hours; below is a typical 8 hour wedding day timeline during the summer.
8:00 PM sunset
Likely ceremony time – 6:00 PM
2:00: Details and getting ready
3:00: Get dressed
3:30: First look
4:15: Individual family photos, followed by combined family photos
5:00: Bridal party photos
5:30: Pre-ceremony portraits conclude / photograph ceremony site and guests entering
6:00: Ceremony (30 minutes)
6:30 – 7:00: Any additional family portraits / bridal party portraits the couple wants
7:35: Grand entrance into reception
7:40: Couples’ first dance
7:50 – 8:10: Married couple portraits
8:00: Dinner + toasts
8:45:: Father/daughter and mother/son dance, dancefloor opens
10:00: Photography concludes
I like to be helpful with my couples while you plan your wedding! Always speak with your photographer before making suggestions or planning with your wedding planner. Each couple has an individual approach to their day, and so does every wedding photographer.
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